The resort ballroom was full of pink balloons, the sound of affection songs and 100 singles gathering for an evening of wine, getting acquainted and — fingers crossed — romance.

Before Mia Kim knew it, 5 hours had flown by on the mixer for 50 males and 50 girls, held in a metropolis simply outdoors Seoul. A bar after-party then lasted till 1 a.m. But Ms. Kim, 37, who works at a software program agency close to Seoul, stated the night time nonetheless “felt too short.”

Playing matchmaker was none apart from the town authorities.

A rising variety of cities throughout South Korea are sponsoring blind-dating occasions like these for singles, determined to prod younger adults onto a observe for marriage and household because the nation has recorded the world’s lowest fertility rate for 3 years in a row.

The cities say the issue is that younger individuals simply don’t need to get married — or have the infants that might observe in a rustic the place solely 2 % of births are outdoors marriage.

“A negative attitude toward marriage is continuing to spread in South Korean society,” stated Shin Sang-jin, the mayor of Seongnam, the town subsequent to Seoul that not too long ago hosted the matchmaking occasion. “I think it’s the local governments’ role to create the conditions for people who do want to get married to find their partners.”

Many young South Koreans, although, say that the actual obstacles to elevating the birthrate are the staggering prices of kid care, unaffordable homes, slim job prospects and crushing work hours — and that blind-dating occasions do little to deal with these points. Women, specifically, say they’ve been discouraged by the prevalence of discrimination in opposition to working moms.

Others say that by making an attempt to play matchmaker, the federal government is being too intrusive in private reproductive decisions.

But the blind-dating occasions have proved in style. Seongnam obtained greater than 1,000 purposes for less than 100 spots for its occasions this month. And contributors have given the mixers rave opinions.

While the proportion of individuals getting married has declined worldwide, it has plummeted particularly far in South Korea. There had been six marriages per 1,000 individuals within the United States in 2021, in contrast with 3.8 per 1,000 individuals in South Korea.

Fewer births have come together with that statistic in South Korea. In 2022, the nation’s fertility fee — the common variety of kids born to a lady of reproductive age — declined for the seventh straight yr, to 0.78, prompting officers to scramble for methods to avert a inhabitants disaster. Policy specialists say they’ve been inadequate, and a few officers’ plans have backfired.

Even because the pool of South Koreans thinking about having kids shrinks, officers predict curiosity in government-sponsored matchmaking to endure. Seongnam, a metropolis of about a million individuals, has allotted about $192,000 of its price range for such occasions, and plans to host a number of extra this yr.

“What we liked to see was the young people smiling and blushing and feeling excited,” stated Kang Mi-jeong, the top of the town group tasked with addressing the low birthrate, which organized the occasion.

Cities in different nations with low birthrates, like China and Japan, have hosted such packages, too. In South Korea, many small cities have been sponsoring related occasions for years, concentrating on individuals ages 27 to 39 who reside or work of their communities.

The outcomes have been blended. Jinju, a southeastern metropolis, has produced 11 {couples} all through 12 years of internet hosting the occasions. In Gumi, an industrial metropolis in central South Korea, 13 {couples} who met by the occasions have gotten married since 2016. In each cities, officers stated they didn’t know what number of kids the event-matched {couples} have had.

The southern coastal city of Sacheon has been holding matchmaking occasions for the previous three years. Though none has yielded any married {couples}, officers stated not sufficient time had handed to supply profitable matches.

Municipal matchmaking reached the better Seoul space for the primary time in Seongnam. Officials in Seoul stated they had been additionally contemplating internet hosting a blind-dating occasion. They had initially supported the proposal however had been reviewing it due to widespread criticism on social media.

“I don’t think it would help at all to solve the shrinking birthrate,” stated Jeon Seolhee, 27, a graduate pupil close to Seoul. “For young women,” Ms. Jeon continued, “the concern is that having children would interrupt their careers.” She herself has a boyfriend, she stated, however has not determined whether or not she desires kids.

Some younger South Koreans have additionally dismissed the mission as contrived and intrusive. “It feels a bit artificial,” stated Park Soomin, 30, who works at a media firm in Incheon, one other metropolis outdoors Seoul. “It’s weird that the government is trying to intervene in personal relationships.”

Researchers who’ve studied South Korea’s inhabitants decline say that lowered work hours, family-friendly work tradition and gender equality throughout the household can be simpler than matchmaking in addressing the causes of the low fertility fee, in response to Jung Jae Hoon, a professor of social welfare at Seoul Women’s University.

In Seongnam, officers stated the blind-dating program was not meant to be the last word resolution to the town’s demographic disaster. But they believed the occasions would fulfill a social want. Out of 200 individuals who arrived solo, 78 individuals walked out as pairs, they stated.

“Young men and women might not be in relationships, but they’re bored,” stated Lee Myung-gil, a relationship coach who helped run the relationship occasion program in Seongnam, “and they say they’re lonely on the weekends.”

Hwang Dabin, 33, who works in actual property in Seongnam, stated he was thinking about attending one of many occasions hosted by his metropolis as a result of the pandemic had put a damper on his social life. He has been single for six years now, he added.

“I was excited to hear that this event was going to be in person,” he stated, including that he had matched with a lady on the occasion. A couple of weeks later, he stated he was nonetheless speaking to her.

Ms. Kim didn’t discover a match. But she stated she was not dissatisfied. Some fellow attendees from the occasion she went to had been organizing a meet-up on their very own, and she or he deliberate to go.

And whether or not she discovered somebody or not, she was not nervous.

“Now I’m trying to be content with just having a good time with good people,” she stated. “Connections don’t happen by force.”